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Interpreted
dreams by "The Dream Lady"
Black
Tornados
Dear
Dream Lady:
I
very often have dreams involving
tornados. Sometimes there is only
one big one in front of me and sometimes
there may be four smaller ones all
lined up in front of me. I am never
harmed in any way and they are always
black.
--- Debbie Jackson, Austin
TX
Dear
Debbie:
This
is a very common dream that many
people seem to have. Remember that
all your dreams have to do with
the state of your mind and consciousness
just prior to having the dream.
Tornados mean that you are experiencing
some chaos or confusion in your
life, especially the day or two
leading up to the dream, indicating
a time of high stress. The fact
that you are never harmed means
that you can easily manage the stress.
Around the Christmas holidays, this
is a common scenario. After the
first of the year situations in
your life will likely calm down.
--- The Dream Lady Top of Page
Famous
People
Dear
Dream Lady:
For
the last 25-30 years I have had dreams
of famous people mostly male actors.
The last few years have been more
about female actors, and the last
year famous couples. I am now pursing
acting after retiring, something I
have always been interested in, along
with modeling. I have not had much
luck with other dream books to help
me understand. Can you please help.
--- Kathy Jo, Oklahoma City
OK
Dear
Kathy:
When
you dream about famous people, especially
male, these people represent inner
qualities you possess that are very,
very accomplished. The fact that they
are actors would tell me that you
already have the inner talent to be
as accomplished as they are. When
you have dreams of female actors,
these will be telling you that you
are finally bringing those exceptional
talents out into your waking life.
I believe these dreams will tell you
that you will have some degree of
success as you pursue these aspirations.
--- The Dream Lady Top of Page
Mother being killed
Dear
Dream Lady:
A
while ago I had a dream that someone
was following my family and my Mother
was killed. A few months later I had
the same dream but a little different,
I was the one being killed. What do
these dreams mean? --- Jessica
Turner, 12, Tulsa OK
Dear
Jessica:
I
can understand that you would be frightened
about this dream. The main thing to
keep in mind is that your dreams are
mostly symbolic so what they seem
on the surface may not be what they
are really about. This is one of those
dreams because "death" in
a dream is not such a bad thing. In
fact, death in a dream represents
a major change in your life or your
mind. Your mother (or father, grandparents,
teachers, or any other authority figure)
represents a very, very important
part of yourself. Authority figures
in your everyday life represent the
deepest, innermost aspects of yourself,
or what I would refer to as "superconscious".
Your superconscious mind is the deepest
part of yourself, the part of you
that is the closest to God. It is
your own inner "authority"
or what some people refer to as their
"conscience," that little
voice inside that tells you what is
right and what is wrong. At your age
of 12, you are entering adolescence
and coming into your own power and
authority. Your Mother being killed
in the dream and then you being killed,
means that you are entering a very
important phase of your life where
you have to take greater responsibility
for your actions. You are no longer
a child but a young adult and you
must listen to your own inner wisdom
rather than buckling to peer pressure.
This is really a good dream and means
that you are entering womanhood.
--- The Dream Lady Top of Page
Stuck in traffic and then slam into car
Dear
Dream Lady:
My recurring dream is that I'm stuck
in traffic and then I all of a sudden
look up and slam into a vehicle. I have
it all the time. But I don't have injuries.
--- Elaine Diaz, Pflugerville
TX
Dear
Elaine:
Cars
normally have to do with your physical
body or your physical life. Being stuck
in traffic might mean that you feel
like you should do more with your body.
For instance, have you been procrastinating
about getting more exercise? Then slamming
into a vehicle would tell me that it
is very important for your health that
you go ahead and make a plan and follow
through. A car wreck could mean that
you may have an upcoming illness or
malfunction with your body. Since this
is a recurring dream, this means that
this is a recurring scenario in your
life. Please let me know if this dream
makes any sense and if you can relate
to it. --- The Dream Lady Top of Page
Falling
Dear
Dream Lady:
Someone keeps falling continuously
from somewhere and just before he
hits the ground I wake up every time.
--- Aditya Venkat, Dallas TX
Dear
Aditya:
Falling
in your dreams means that you feel
out of control with some (or many)
aspects of your life. This may or
may not be true, but it is your perception
--- you feel that there are things
out of your control. Ask yourself
if you are making the necessary choices
in your life to feel in control of
what is occurring. Sometimes we feel
that we are victims in our own life,
however it is only a manifestation
of NOT making choices and following
through. So the next time you have
this dream, look at the day before
the dream and ask yourself what choice
could you have made that you avoided
making. --- The Dream Lady
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Pulling weeds out of leg
Dear
Dream Lady:
I
dreamed that I was pulling weeds with
roots out of my leg. After I pulled
all of the weeds out, there was a
plant that I tried to put back in
a hole in the ground that had water.
There was too much water in the hole
for the plant. Does this mean that
I'm trying to get "unstuck"?
--- Carlos Emami, Katy TX
Dear
Carlos:
Congratulations,
I think you are right on track with
what this dream means! Weeds are probably
your doubts and fears. Your legs have
to do with how you move forward in
your life. Pulling the weeds out by
the roots would mean that you are
completely eliminating them (the doubts
& fears) and thus more able to
move forward with your goals in life.
Trying to place a plant in a hole
but there being too much water would
mean that as a result of getting rid
of your doubts and fears, you are
finding that there are a great deal
more experiences now available to
you. This is a confirmation dream
Carlos, affirmation that you have
recently made some productive changes
in your life and now ready to move
forward with new experiences. ---
The Dream Lady
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Getting married to faceless
groom
Dear Dream Lady:
A few years ago I had a dream
that I was getting married. I can
remember the dress, the church,
just about everything. The weird
part of the dream was that the groom
was faceless, his face blurred out.
I remember my Dad giving me away
to this groom. In real life I have
never been married.
--- Camille Shaw, Austin TX
Dear Camille:
This is really a pretty good dream to have. When
you get married in a dream, it has
to do with commitment, but not necessarily
to an actual person. We make commitments
to jobs, tasks, to new ways of being
and living in the world. Someone
of the opposite sex represents an
inner aspect of Self, a subconscious
quality of yourself. Your Dad represents
the deepest part of yourself, which
is the Superconscious Mind. This
part of the mind is the part of
you that is the closest to God,
or that divine core within you.
So in summary, this dream is saying
that you are in the midst of making
a very important, inner commitment
to yourself, but you are unsure
exactly what you are committing
to. Since your Father gave you away,
this means that the commitment is
a very important, perhaps a spiritual
commitment you are making to yourself.
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Dear Dream Lady:
This is a dream I had several
years ago when I read some predictions
of the end of the world. I was also
about a year out from a divorce, worked
as a flight attendant and was in a
quandry as to what to do with my life.
In the dream I was standing in my
parent's living room next to the picture
window. A man gave me "virtual
reality" head gear to put on.
He told me to look out the window,
and if I floated up I would be "saved".
(Which is a strange word to use since
I was raised Catholic). So, I looked
out the window and saw people walking
around and nothing happened. Then,
I barely started to float up until
I dropped flat on my face! The man
lifted me up, took my head gear and
solemnly said, "Sorry, you didn't
make it". I begged him to let
me try it again, but he said I only
had one chance and I didn't make it. ---JoAnn Charette, Round Rock TX
Dear JoAnn:
Since this dream occurred
during a time when you felt confused
about what to do with your life, I
believe it is about that very thing.
Virtual Reality head gear would give
you the ability to see into the future
to some extent. Being able to float
up would give you a broader perspective
of your past and your future. I believe
this dream had to do with you putting
too much pressure on yourself to determine
where you would go at that particular
crossroads in your life. I believe
that perhaps you felt like there was
only "one chance" to get
it right, and you wanted to make sure
you made the absolute most correct
choice. The message here is that there
is not just one "correct"
choice out there to make regarding
your future, and we aren't doomed
if we don't make that one choice.
Life is filled with many correct choices
that all create different outcomes.
This dream was telling you that you
were putting too much stress on yourself
to make the correct choice. Trust
yourself, and if you aren't sure about
the choice before you, be patient
and sooner or later more information
will be revealed that will help you
to make the next choice. ---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Loved ones from the other
side
Dear Dream Lady:
For the last month I've been
dreaming of loved ones who have passed
away. I see them alive, sometimes
well, sometimes very ill. Last night
I dreamt of my best friend, Marlena,
who died about 6 years ago of cancer.
In my dream, we were at her house
- I think we were either in her kitchen
or her dining room because I was sitting
at a table and she was standing by
what may have been a counter or china
cabinet. She was very thin and was
missing her right breast (which in
real life was her first surgery).
When I woke up I felt like we had
spent some "quality" time
together although I felt sad that
she was gone. I did not feel sad in
my dream. In my dream I seemed aware
that Marlena was a little melancholy.
I wonder if this dream is a premonition
because about two weeks ago, I dreamt
of my grandmother who has been deceased
for about 15 years. She was laying
in something that appeared to be a
coffin but was not. She had her arms
crossed at her stomach - as you often
see people laid in their coffins,
and her long salt & pepper hair
came down around her shoulders. Her
eyes were closed and she had no expression
on her face. I could see her breathing
but in my dream I knew that she was
very ill and was going to die. Could
this dream have been a premonition?
My Aunt Dora, her daughter, passed
away last week.
---Alice Whistler, League City TX
Dear Alice:
I personally believe you were
actually having a conversation with
your friend, Marlena. Where we go
when we die, the "other side,"
is also where we go in the subconscious
when we dream. To be able to converse
with a dear friend or loved one after
they have passed over is truly a wonderful
experience. I've had many of those
experiences myself, and I do treasure
them. These dreams tell us that the
soul is truly immortal and everlasting.
The next part of the dream where you
saw your grandmother in a coffin could
possibly be precognitive, especially
since her daughter Dora passed away
shortly thereafter. But of course,
before you make any assumptions about
a dream being a premonition, it is
always wise to consider the symbolic
interpretation. Symbolically, your
grandmother represents your Superconscious
mind, the deepest part of your self
that is connected to a higher source.
Death represents a major change or
transformation. So it is entirely
possible that you're in the middle
of making some very big changes in
your life regarding your own inner
authority. Are you becoming more self-assured
and confident about your decisions?
This aspect of the dream could mean
that you are actually becoming more
in-tune with your inner self. If this
is true, then you should be congratulated.
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Lots
of money
Dear
Dream Lady:
I have a recurring dream that
I have lots of money, and I alternate
between traveling and enjoying the
trip with my whole family. Or I redecorate
the house or buy new vehicles. My
husband and I are everyday workers,
we are both nurses. Sometimes we go
through ups and downs financially,
but I have not noticed that the dreams
come when we are having a difficult
period, the dream has been coming
to me for about 4 years. I am not
sure why???
--- Maria Ethredge, Austin TX
Dear Maria:
I wish I would hear more dreams
like yours! Dreams with money have
to do with self-value. Lots of money
means that you have a great deal of
self-value. This is a good thing and
you apparently have done some good
work on yourself. Of course it could
be precognitive and could mean that
you are about to come into a lot of
money! Either interpretation is desirable.
Redecorating your house means that
you see value in learning new things.
Buying new cars means that you see
value in your physical experiences.
All in all, these are very good dreams
to have. I would highly recommend
that you investigate our Mind, Body,
& Spirit courses we offer in Austin.
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Dear Dream Lady:
I saw my youngest daughter
leaving to get into her car against
my wishes but her dad must have given
in to her. I'm standing up in a yard
and watch her drive past me. As she
takes the bend I see her light up
a cigarette. I "blow up"
and take off after her, catch up to
her (I outrun the car?!), and grab
her through the open window. I can
feel the anger as I pull her from
her seat through the open window (am
I superman??). My anger is really
blowing up now as I hear her say "Mom
I won't do it again, I promise",
I punch her a couple of times in the
face. My husband at this point wakes
me up as I was really punching my
pillow! FYI My daughter did have her
driving privilege taken away a month
ago; she's never smoked nor does she
want to.
---A. Krause, Houston TX
Dear A.K:
I
feel this dream may be about your
fears. I am concerned that you might
be focusing too much on what you are
afraid your daughter might do (worst
case scenario). Relax … take
some deep breaths and let your daughter
prove that she is trustworthy and
reliable. Punching her in the face
in the dream is not healthy, and indicates
that you have too much energy bottled
up regarding your need to control
her actions. You will gain more from
her actions by trusting her than from
being suspicious all the time.
---The Dream Lady
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Dear Dream Lady:
I was swimming in a lake and
the water was dark, but then somehow
I went under or something pulled me
under.
As I went under water, the
water was clear.
That’s all I remember.
---G.R.,
Houston
Dear G.R:
Remember
that your dreams are always a reflection
of what has been going on in your
life just prior to having the dream.
You submitted the dream to
me on October 9th, so you
will want to think about what all
was occurring in your life in or around
that time.
This dream is saying that you
were feeling overwhelmed with some
experiences in your life. These could
be at work or in your personal life.
Being pulled under water, could mean
that you felt you had no real choice
in the matter.
At first the water was dark,
which meant that the situation was
“unclear” at first, but then the water
became clear, meant you were able
to gain more clarity after you got
more involved.
In summary, this means that
something new was occurring that was
a little overwhelming, and then it
became more clear
after you became immersed in the situation.
Good job! ---The
Dream Lady Top of Page
Dear Dream Lady:
I have recurring dreams that
I can fly or float away from things. When I’m in the air flying, it’s
really like I’m swimming.
Most of the time I am getting away from something that is after
me.
I also dream that I can move
objects with my mind.
I like this feeling.
---Donna Wurst,
Buda
Dear Donna:
These are very cool dreams
that tell me you are a very exceptional
woman, and probably very intuitive
in your own right. Flying in dreams
has a good meaning except if you take
off flying to avoid some situation.
In this case, the dream is saying
that you are avoiding something that
you need to face. If you just fly or float around
and not because you are trying to
escape something, then the dream is
saying that you were experiencing
attitudes of optimism and limitlessness.
Being able to move things in your
dreams is also a good sign and means
that you can easily move around in
this physical world and don’t see
there is anything that would restrict
you.
These are very good dreams
to have and indicate that you should
investigate more about your own subconscious
mind, like take some of our classes
or work more with your dreams, learn
meditation, or something along these
lines. You will find that the time will
be well-spent and you will gain much
awareness. ---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Someone trying to kill me
Dear Dream Lady:
I have recurring dreams that
someone or something is chasing me,
someone is attacking me, or someone
is trying to kill me.
I feel this overwhelming sense
of death around. These dreams are so real. Many times
I wake up from the dream and sit on
the edge of the bed and think about
the dream.
Other times I jump out of bed
and try to run.
I fell off the bed once trying
to escape my attacker. I have even
attacked my husband while trying to
defend myself.
I have even hurt myself trying
to get away, and this is the second
time. Lately I’ve been having more of
these dreams.
---O.A., Austin
Dear O.A:
Since this is a recurring
scenario, this means that you really
need to understand what this dream
means, or you will continue to have
the dream until you do. Everyone in the dream is an aspect
of yourself, so that means there is
something inside of you that you are
running from.
Since these dreams are becoming
more and more violent and you are
hurting yourself trying to escape
the dream, it is very important that
you address something within yourself
that you are avoiding.
Deep inside you know what this
is. Face up to this situation in your
life, address it, and decide what
you are going to do about it.
There is some kind of change
you need to make in your life. Don’t be afraid, go ahead and do
it!
---The Dream Lady
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Music
in my dream
Dear
Dream Lady:
About twice a week I dream
music.
It comes in different forms
and different songs but sometimes
I dream of songs I’ve never heard
before.
Music has always been a large
part of my life and I’ve been in choirs
and variety shows.
Why do I dream of songs that
I’ve never heard before?
---Cindi Seelig, Austin
Dear Cindi:
These are great dreams to
have and mean that you are living
your life very harmoniously.
Music is the symbol for harmony.
If you are dreaming of songs
you’ve never heard before, perhaps
your subconscious mind is giving you
a hint that you should be writing
your own songs. If I were you, I would put a notebook
by the side of the bed, and commit
to writing down whatever music or
lyrics you wake up with.
Who knows --- you could come
up with a Grammy winning song! ---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Secrets of universe revealed
Dear Dream Lady:
I’m suddenly sitting at the
head of a large oval table in a dimly
lit room with no other furnishings.
There are others sitting around
the table, although I cannot see them
with my eyes, I see them with my mind.
They are there to share with me secrets
of the universe and are each simultaneously
speaking with me so quickly from each
side of the table it is difficult
for me to digest everything they are
saying. Then a perfect white light comes
down slowly toward the center of the
table where there is a clear, pyramid
shaped sphere.
When the perfect white light
touches the sphere, laser type lights
with vivid colors shoot out from the
sphere which made everything they
had told me melt into my brain. ---Cherie Akiva,
Austin
Dear Cherie:
Wow
what a cool dream!
I’m envious, and that’s not
easy for me to say.
This is not just a cool dream
but a very significant dream. You
have received some spiritual information
from your superconscious
mind. The
superconscious mind is the part of yourself that is the most connected with God. The white
light is indicating the purity of
this knowledge. The pyramid shaped sphere has to
do with inner, spiritual power that
you now possess. The laser lights and colors that
shot down to “melt” everything into
your brain means that this knowledge
is solidified, its
yours forever. I would call this a heavenly hit!
You have been imparted with some very
special spiritual knowledge, whether
you know it or not.
This information is worth your
investigation.
You should email me regarding
this information and get into our
classes as soon as you can.
You must not waste your gifts!
---The Dream Lady
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Dear Dream Lady:
I was on a date with a man
that I dated 4 years ago. We were
on a date and two other men were with
us. I didn't know the men. First we
went to a hotel and were in what appeared
to be the executive suite. We're there
and then we're not there. And then
I'm with three female friends in the
suite and we are clearly upset about
something the men have done. They
left me somewhere. It's a beautiful
suite with many detailed things. I
was enamored with the bathroom because
it had separate stalls and little
drawers and special places for things.
At one point I'm hiding in one of
the closets, but I don't know why.
Then the scene switched to me walking
home. On my way I ran into a lady
that I work with that was walking
barefoot which I thought was so strange.
Then I was driving back to the hotel
and stopped in front of the hotel
and went to look for the valet attendant.
The next thing I know I'm looking
back and my truck is rolling out of
the driveway across the street into
a large pond that seems to be part
of a water park. Then I'm over at
the water park trying to get my truck.
I see them pulling it out of the pond
with a wrecker, but when they take
me to where they have it, they show
me two different trucks, the same
color as mine, but clearly not my
truck. Then I'm riding with Mike (the
ex-boyfriend) and he is telling me
that he is taking me this underground
place to work and that he needs 6
more women. He apologizes and says
he had to do it. I asked him if that
means I can't go home and he says
yes. Then I'm wandering around in
this underground place looking for
something. He disappeared. Then I'm
in a bar and ask if they know where
Mike is and they point behind me.
I turn around and he is sitting at
a table with four men (two from the
date). I go to sit down and another
man walks up and says "that's my seat".
So I walk around the table to sit
by Mike and he says "no, that's for
that other woman that I'm with". Then
he waves a strange mechanical looking
hand over a little black box on the
table and says to the waiter "put
anything she wants on my tab". I wander
off down the hallway and then I'm
in the car with Mike again. He points
off to the distance and says there's
your truck - and there it is. Then
he says something that I can't remember
and I look at him strangely and he
says "you know this is not the first
time that I have felt sorry for you
because you are so stupid". --- M.B.
Dear M.B:
Regarding
the dream you submitted several weeks
ago, sorry it has taken so long, but
I have had hundreds to interpret and
it has been very challenging. Your
dream was about your need to take
care of your body and your health
better than you are (or at least during
the time you had the dream). Losing
your truck was about losing touch
with your body. Wandering around underground means that it is an "unconscious"
process of not taking care of your
health. This means you need
to be more aware of when your body
needs attention. Being in the bar
with Mike and him saying you could
have anything you wanted, meant that
your subconscious mind (inner self)
is willing to help you. Him
saying what he did at the end of the
dream has to do with YOU being overly
critical of yourself. So lighten
up on yourself and take better care
of your health and your physical body.
Let me know if any of this makes any
sense and if it relates to anything
you can think of. --- Dream Lady
Dear
Dream Lady:
Thanks so much for your interpretation,
it is soooo
true!
My mother got very ill in December
and since then I have been caring
for her. So I have a day job (Assistant
to the CEO) and a night job (mom and
home), both huge responsibilities.
Although I've always been a drinker
for a long time, I had been drinking
more and more to help cope with the
situation. I had recently gone to
my doctor and told him I was in trouble.
He put me on an anti-depressant and
told me to quit drinking so much.
Though the anti-depressant made a
huge difference, I was going through
a time when I was trying to cut down
and was vacillating back and forth
between drinking little and too much.
I was very concerned about myself. Thanks for your help, now I know what
that dream meant.
--- M.B. Top of Page
Deceased Father and Nicholas
Cage
Dear Dream Lady:
First of all, I watched Prime
Time last night and saw Gweneth
Paltrow talk about the death of her Father last year.
She was very distraught over
his death.
It made me sad about my own
father’s death.
I then had a dream about myself
and Nicolas Cage.
Don’t know why, but in the
room sitting on the side of the dresser
was my Father who has been dead for
10 years. He just looked at me with those dead black
eyes.
What does this dream mean?
I have not dreamed of him for
many years, is he trying to contact
me?
---Patricia
Dear Patricia:
I think it is entirely possible
that he is trying to contact you.
Especially
since you were just reminded of him
from the PRIME TIME show. He
may not have spoken to you in the
dream because he did not want to scare
you. So he just appeared so you could
get used to the idea. So if you are
open to that possibility (which I
do encourage) then be receptive and
even before you go to sleep, mentally
tell your dad that you would like
to have communication with him. On
the other side, they are very receptive
to this contact, but will not intrude
in your life if you don't want them
to. I have had lots of communication
over the past 20 years from my deceased
husband.
Now
… the other way to look at this, which
is not in lieu of the above,
but in addi-tion to, is the
more symbolic interpretation. Your
father represents your super-conscious
Mind, the deepest part of your Self.
Nick Cage would represent a very creative
part of yourself.
So, ask yourself --- Is there a creative part of yourself that is dead?
---Dream Lady Top of Page
Rotten
baby dream
Dear
Dream Lady:
I was with My Uncle and Aunt
and my Aunt was carrying a baby but
this baby was dead because it had
worms along the ears and it smelled
really bad. Then she was trying to make me carry the
baby and I didn't want to so I ran
and ran. She kept following me trying to give me
this baby and I told her no that the
baby was dead and she should bury
the baby.
She responded that this baby
was so cute and loving and it wasn't
dead. I cannot forget this dream because
it felt so real and the smell of this
baby was horrible. ---Erika V.
Dear Erika:
These types of dreams can
leave a horrible feeling if taken
literally. Keep in mind, it is just your Subconscious
(inner self) stirring your emotions
so you have a better chance of remembering
the dream.
This dream is about a new idea
that you are struggling with. Your Aunt represents a familiar and probably
authoritative aspect of yourself.
The baby symbolizes a new idea.
The baby (new idea) decaying
with worms tells us that you haven’t
given this new idea much attention
lately.
Having worms in the ears means
that you are not listening to yourself.
You have a really wonderful
idea that you are not giving attention
to, what is it?? What new idea are you refusing to give
life to?
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Snake
biting people
Dear
Dream Lady:
I dreamed of a snake caught
in the cracks of a sidewalk, trying
to strike people as they walked by.
---Janie Ciancia
Dear Janie:
This is a great dream! Snakes are the symbol for inner wisdom
or healing.
To have wisdom or healing attempt
to connect with you as you are walking
along your path can be a beneficial
thing.
Take a look at your attitudes
and experiences within the previous
24-48 hours of the dream.
What pearls of wisdom have
you passed on and been slightly surprised
at the ease of communicating?
How have you followed your
intuition?
Have you recently been aware
of healing old hurts or wounds? You are a very wise person but you don’t
know it! ---The
Dream Lady
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Skeleton chasing me
Dear Dream Lady:
Ever since my parents divorced
when I was 10-1/2 and my brother
was almost 14, I have been having
this dream. That I am in a 2
story house by myself and
all the lights are off. Then
this person in a Black Trench
Long Coat with a hood was chasing
me like attacking me.
So I end up running from him
all through the house. Then
I leave running out of the house
running down the street through
an area with boats and water
with a little shack on the left.
Every time the person got near
a light it would shine on his
face and I would see nothing
but a big black spot. It would
never show his face.
The dream went away for
while. Then the beginning of
August 2002, I started having
the dream again. Then towards
the end of August I found out
my father was sick, so I quit
school moved out of my Finance's
house with our son to be closer
to my father, to take care of
him.
My father was diagnosed
was type 4 Lung Cancer that
spread to his brain. They gave
him 6months to 1year to live.
That was very hard. Then 6weeks into his treatment, he was
hospitalized. One week after
being there they put him on
life support. His 45th
birthday was Oct 20. I chose
to take him life support, because
I knew he would not want to
live like this. My mother
and I were counting his breaths
intake and how long he would
hold it. For 3-1/2 days he was
breathing on his own. So my
mother left to go home and get
some rest. I was in the room
for only 30 minutes before he
took his last breath. It was like his spirit just walked out
the door. Still this day I cry
for him and I keep having this
dream where the man is chasing
me, but when the light shines
in his face it is skeleton.
I do not want to feel like my
fathers is after me, but I am
blaming myself for his death
because of all that I put him
through after my parents divorced,
which is hard to look past. So what do you think that these dreams
mean.
Also 10 months later
in July 2003, I lost my grandmother
(my Father’s Mother) and now
just last week I lost my brother
to prison. I feel like I failed
my father because I promised
I would keep my brother
out of trouble and now he is
in prison. I could go on and
on, but I won't. I have never
talked about any of this since
my father died. I keep it all
inside. I am angry at the world
because of it. I am on the edge
of losing my soon-to-be husband.
We have been having so many
problems because I take it all
out on him. He is getting tired of it. I know I am
in love with him and want to
spend the rest of our lives
together with our son.
So if you could help
me in any way I would so appreciate
it.
God knows I need all
the help I can get right now.
When I heard you on the radio
this morning I felt as though
this was a sign and you were
calling out to help me. I pray
to God you can help.
---Carina Perez
Dear Carina:
My heart goes out to you regarding
all the difficulties you are
having. I don't know where
to start, but just to say that
where your father is now … in
spirit, he
would never, ever blame you
for the choice you made to remove
him from life support.
As hard as it may seem, you
must let go of blaming yourself
for making the best decision
you could make. As for
the man chasing you in the dream
that looks like a skeleton,
I can assure you this is NOT
your father who is chasing you
in the dream. The man
in the dream is symbolic
of your "self-blame" that keeps
following you around.
You blamed yourself when your
parents divorced, and now you
are blaming yourself for your
Father’s death.
When you release your
self-blame, this man will stop
chasing you in the dream.
And now you are continuing to
blame yourself for not keeping
your brother out of prison.
How in the world can you keep
that promise when you have no
control over your brother's
actions? Your father knows
this now (in spirit) and would
never blame you for that.
So you
have to forgive yourself
because God and your Father
already have forgiven you. If
you don't do this, then you
can't move on with your life.
And you don't want to lose a
good man just because you can't
forgive yourself, right?
If at all possible, you should
try to come to our classes in
Houston. We can help you make
this transition and help you
let go of the blame. ---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Almost being kissed
Dear Dream Lady:I am dating someone and we
really like each other and just
as the guy is about to kiss
me, I wake up.
I have had this dream
several times, with a different
guy in each dream, and each
time he is getting ready to
kiss me when I wake up.
---Erika Smith
Dear Erika:
What a frustrating dream this
must be for you!
For women, the men in
our dreams represent inner,
subconscious qualities of ourselves. Kissing
means that you are creating
harmony with this inner part
of yourself.
But “almost” kissing, means that you are getting closer and closer
to harmonizing with an important
part of yourself but you don’t
allow yourself to really follow
through with it.
My question to you is
this --- What is it that you
are close to doing in your life,
or what is it that you have
always wanted to but would never
allow yourself to do?
Whatever this is, you
need to just go ahead and do
it because it is a good thing.
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Floating in the air
Dear Dream Lady:
I dreamt that I was at a party
with both friends and family
at a beach house. I was outside,
near the shore where I willed
myself to float into the air
and hover at about the height
of a tall pine tree, over the
area where the ocean's water
was washing up on the shore.
Although I was hovering so high
up in the air, I wasn't frightened.
I was in control of myself
and it felt good to be up above
everyone. Anyway, I've
been having dreams about water
for the last 3-4 weeks (uncontained
water, not bathtubs or swimming
pools, but oceans & vast
expanses of water). In waking
life I've been struggling with
a major decision to attend a
university in Scotland for a year. I currently live
in the US, have a cat that is
precious to me, and I'm very
close to my family. All of these
reasons are making it difficult
for me to decide whether I could
leave home for such a long period
of time. ---Jamie
Grayson
Dear Jamie:
When you float in a dream,
it is similar to flying, which
means you are trying to gain
a greater perspective over the
situation you are considering. When you view your situation from above,
you have a more expansive viewpoint
from which to base your decisions.
The uncontained water
in your dreams are
all the new experiences you
are getting ready to have.
I would seriously consider
this year abroad because you
will have lots of new experiences
that you would not normally
have. Your family and pets will be home waiting
for you.
Don’t let your sentimentality
get in the way of new and exciting
experiences. ---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Teacher can’t get to school
Dear Dream Lady:
I am struggling frantically
to get ready for work. (6th
grade teacher). I can't
get dressed or choose clothes
that go together or get my hair
to be presentable. I'm so frantic
that I am asking my mother to
help me and for some reason
she doesn't. I can't get to
the phone or make a call to
tell the school that I will
not be making it that day. I
worried that there will not
be a substitute, and that they
will not know where I am. I still can't seem to get myself ready
to go to work. I can't help
myself. I try and try and then
I finally wake up. I have this
frustrating dream over and over
again. The last time I had it
was several weeks ago.
---JoAnn
Dear
JoAnn:A
recurring dream is one of the
best ways your Subconscious
Mind (inner self) has to make
sure you are paying attention. So listen up! This dream is a general frustration dream
and probably happens when you
are stressed at work. The dream indicates your feeling of being
unable to live up to your own
expectations, when in actuality
you probably are.
Make sure that you are
effectively communicating your
ideas to others and be sure
to express yourself in a way
that truly communicates who
you are. I hope this helps. ---The
Dream Lady Top of Page
Pick number 6 to die
Dear Dream Lady:
I have a recurring dream that
I am put in a room in the dark.
I can't see anything. But I
hear voices saying that I have
to pick and number. They are
shouting at me very, very loudly
to pick a number. So when I
finally do, instantly someone
I know dies. I can hear them
screaming. I always pick the
same number. Number
6. Even though I know
in the back of my mind it is
the same number I picked before.
Then I wake up and I can still
hear the screaming and I can
still hear me calling out the
no. 6. I have to get up and
turn on the light. My heart
is pounding and I'm shaking,
it takes me a while to get back
to sleep. ---Gayleen
Barerra
Dear Gayleen:
When you have recurring dreams,
it is your Subconscious Mind’s
way of telling you to pay attention
to the message it is sending.
Also, when you have a
dream that stirs your emotions
it is just your Subconscious (inner self) stimulating your emotions
so you have a better chance
of remembering the dream. So listen up.
Darkness in a dream symbolizes
lack of awareness. Using numerology,
the number six represents “service”.
Death means a major change
or transformation within yourself
or your life. Therefore, this
dream is about is a major change
occurring within you, but you
are not clear on how or what
this change is.
It seems to me that there
is some other profession or
volunteer work that you are
very good at doing. Perhaps
you have always had a kind and
caring heart, and people know
that they can trust you. When the person dies after picking the
“unlucky” number 6, tells me
that if you were to get honest
about the part of you that can
be of service to others, then
you will experience a very significant
change within yourself.
The dream has nothing
to do with another person dying. You have something valuable to offer
others, what is it?
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Ex getting out of jail
Dear Dream Lady:
I've been having these recurring
dreams for the past 6 months,
almost every other night. They are of my ex boyfriend who comes
out of jail and hurts me and
my loved ones. In real life
he was always threatening me
and abusing me. He has been
in jail for the past 6 months,
and I don't know when he will
be out. I believe he is one
of my biggest fears, that and
him coming out of jail soon.
I stress out about these dreams.
Can you please tell me what
they mean? ---Norma Escalante
Dear Norma:
These recurring dreams are
probably a result of your own
fears.
You are obsessing about
him getting out of jail so much
that you continue to have those
fears play out in the dream
state. Focus on the good things in your life
rather than on your fears.
Symbolically, this dream
could also mean that you are
being abusive to yourself.
Examine how you are overly
critical of yourself, and knock
it off! Lighten up on yourself. If you are going
to “get down” on yourself –
then kick yourself a thousand
times but get it over with in
five minutes! You have more
important things to focus on
that your fears.
---The Dream Lady Top of Page
Deceased Father trying to
communicate
Dear Dream Lady:
I have heard you on the Weaver
and Dana show on Sunny 99.1,
and thoroughly enjoy your commentaries.
I need your help with a dream
I had last evening. First
of all, I watched "Prime Time"
last night before bed and saw
Gwenneth Paltrow talk about
the death of her Father, which
happened last year. She
was very distraught over his
death, etc. It made me
very sad. I then went
to bed around 10:00pm. I had a dream about
myself and Nicolas Cage.
Don't know why, but there in
the room sitting on the side
of the dresser was my dead Father.
He has been dead for 10 years.
He just looked at me with those
dead black eyes. Can you
tell me what this means?
I have not dreamed of him for
many years. Is he trying
to contact me? Thanks
so much for your help. ---Patricia LaSalle
Dear Patricia:
I think it is entirely possible
that he is trying to contact
you, especially since you were
just reminded of him from the
PRIME TIME show. He may
not have spoken to you in the
dream because he did not want
to scare you. So he just
appeared so you could get used
to the idea. So if you
are open to that possibility
(which I encourage) then be
receptive and even before you
go to sleep, mentally tell your
Dad that you would like to have
communication with him.
On the other side, they
are very receptive to this,
but will not intrude in your
life if you don't want them
to. I have had lots of communication
over the past 20 years from
my deceased husband.
It is always very special.
Now, the other way to look at
this, which is not lieu
of the above but in addition
to, is the more symbolic interpretation.
Your father represents your
Superconscious Mind, the deepest part of your Self.
Nick Cage would represent a
very creative part of your self.
Ask yourself this question:
Is there a creative part
of myself that is dead? ---The Dream Lady
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